Women
and the Destruction of Christian Civilization
By:
Eric Gajewski
The
title of this article is sure to spark some controversy amongst women however
it is most necessary. For the sake of
argument this article does not cover how men are destroying the Christian
society but since I predominantly work with women this piece is very timely. Recently, there was a video I watched, in
which the premise was, that women, were ultimately destroying society, in
general, for being “swept away” by the modern world and its desires. The premise holds that 75 percent of all
women pursue the “upper 25 percent” of the male kingdom in attempts to secure
status, position and power. All rather crass and superficial of course.
Although the video was not made by a Catholic there were certainly truths unveiled
in the video which I have been making light of in my apostolate specifically with
women.
This
is not intended to be some professional thesis for the University with specific
related data but rather my own observations based upon my experience and
dealings with so many over the years. I can also cite from my own personal
experiences of when I was in the dating world before my own conversion and saw
this with my own eyes. It is a sad
reality that men pursue women often for looks, body and sometimes in “who they
can control” but in return it is our ladies who pursue men for social status
and security. Between these two self-centered
dispositions we have a Molotov cocktail causing fires all over Society. Where
has true Love gone? The divorce rates
are still decently high even amongst “Catholics” (around 30 percent) and even
higher outside of the Church (31 -50 percent depending on what demographic
viewed). I am no Dr. Phil nor do I want
to be, however, this problem can once again return to the question of self vs
the Sacred Heart. Do I try to seek God’s
Will in finding my “soulmate” or am I simply “dressing up” to play the part for
the “upper 25 percent man” who may walk by.
This
fantasy the majority of women pursue is called “pretend land” wherein these women
marry into a situation with status and supposed security not really loving
their husbands and have the disposition of just “trying to make it work”. Common sense even screams this is very
dangerous! But who these days has any
common sense anymore? I will date the
man and then fall in love with him later…this sadly is the disposition of so many
modern women. Take a look at what these
women “do and who they look up to” and you begin to have your questions answered
as to why this is.
The
modern woman in general including a lot of Novus Ordites (Vatican II’ers) spend
too much time with TV, movies, entertainment, with gadgets, magazines, with
gossip and internet and ultimately are pulled away into this “pretend land”. Ultimately they see others doing the same and
rationalize their disposition and thus Christian Civilization continues to
produce women who are very superficial and shallow. I must have perfect eyebrows, wear the most
make up to stand out. I must have the “hottest”
body with the biggest chest and tightest rear end. I must have the 500 dollar purse and shoes so
that I can attract this “man of international status” in so that I can further
my own hidden greed which I will not acknowledge publicly. It is quite sad to see so many ladies being
slave to the self but then again the men are not so different too. Again, this is purely generalized but from my
eyes the premise is very true (as a whole).
Modern women are in the “now” business; they want all of these false securities
because they themselves are VERY insecure.
If they had what their hearts were truly made for then they would begin
to seek God’s Will instead of bowing down daily to the god of self. They are not truly rooted in Mary and
Jesus. Sure, they go to Mass and maybe
confession every few months and pray a rosary every now and again but is this
sufficient to win back our Catholic culture?
The answer is not hardly.
The
majority of women do not pursue Gods Will.
In the premise that the majority of women pursue the “international man
of mystery” in the upper 25 percent social status we see very clearly our women
not pursuing Gods Will. Seek ye first
the Kingdom and then all these things shall be added Our Lord says. But the
modern women says seek ye first a hot man with status and security and then I’m
sure I’ll find Christ. Modern women have
their priorities backwards. I am not
suggesting that all women are or should be looking for slobs and those living
on welfare but I am making the point that our women are destroying our society
with their delusions rooted in self. You
see the Church teaches there must be fruit from the Marriage and what do we
find so often in marriage these days? Answer:
Very fruitless marriages transpire which in reality are not marriages at
all. Couples with the perfect opportunity
to have big families choosing to only have one or two children because the wife
cant “mess up her body” and the man doesn’t want any more headaches after work
then he already has. Talk about a
society riddled with the disease of me; talk about a western world so dominated
by the self-virus that it does not see how our hearts have shrunken. Forget
about the Zika virus our world has something much more harmful than Zika which
first starts in the heart.
I am
very forthright and blunt with the women I have helped and/or directed. I cut right to the point. I come with a spiritual knife which cuts deep
but it is truth. Women have become
highly superficial due to absorbing their modern surroundings. Furthermore, since
Vatican II, the modernist’s who have adopted these modern errors and even
disposition to self, (for VII is man centered thus self-centered) now has
produced women who have no idea “what it is” to truly be a Catholic woman. She thinks she can fit into the modern world and
ultimately entangle herself in this web.
Not hardly. You will often see
the Modernists of VII attack us on this point stating that we are “medievalist’s”
and yet in their own blindness they do not even realize they are not even Catholics!
(objectively speaking). The modern world
chews up and spits out traditionalism on virtually every level. Our women are buying into the whole “me”
centered, career first propaganda used
by the New World Order and now we have desolate and empty homes both spiritually
and literally speaking for the women are out and about seeking equality in
every way possible. Feminism and Catholicism
are incompatible yet not to the delusional modern woman!
In
the end most women are waiting for Mr. Wrong thinking what they are doing is
right. Most women hold out and never get married and still some, the few good,
are holding out and not finding any real men! My good ladies if we are to truly
make this a world of peace under the mantle of Our Lady we must first have the
peace of the security in Christ and not seek for the “international man of
mystery”. Two hearts in selfless love
must become one. But sadly so many homes
are “deserted old western towns” with the tumbleweed of superficiality blowing
through the living room. In my own
experience (before my conversion) I have dated females who I have found only in the end to have dated
me because of my looks, education, athletic background, money, status, etc
while all the time never truly “loving”.
This is in part why society is collapsing because we don’t have the
intention first to Love but are seemingly always on the hunt for what “we want”
and yet in what we want is not at all what God wants for me. It is the "disease of me" which seeks to stand
out and say hello “upper 25 percent man” I am over here! I could use a nice car, big house, trips to
the Caribbean and a piece of eye candy to wake up to every morning!
A
further problem is this, Christians are not bearing fruit but the ungodly are
and they are about to overrun Europe and the USA knowing this. If men in response would only “call out” more
women on this perhaps we can begin to normalize things a bit but I don’t have
too much faith in this because our men are equally just as bad pursuing women
for vain purposes as well. We need not
be doomed any longer if we run to Our Lady and stay close to Her Heart. This is your answer O’ modern woman! She is
your heart’s runway model. Real Catholic
men of Faith who stay close to Our Lady and Lord are not interested in your
fake eyebrows, chest, rear end and all the vain expensive garments you want to
feel secure in. Real men are looking for
real women who fear God keep the Catholic Faith (without which it is impossible
to please God) and yet the vain keep getting “paired up and married” Thus who
can be surprised over the divorce rates which reflect this thesis. It is frightful to think about what will
happen when the whole social, political and economic order soon collapses and
these women will sink like the quicksand they are built upon. Many of them will sadly commit suicide I
believe.
Remember Our Lord warned in these end times that charity would grow
cold and it is no different for this topic of marriage. Our Lady warned at Fatima most marriages weren’t approved by God. Our Lady of Fatima to Jacinta: ""Many marriages are not of God and do not please our Lord." The modern
world is truly a reflection on the surface of the interior disease of “me”
within these poor women. The first
problem with these women is that they wanted anything other than to do the Will
of God FIRST but under their “current regime” of the tyranny of self this is
not at all possible. Whitney Houston was wrong "children are not the future" because if our
women do not get their act together their will be no children to even speak
of! You are being challenged today my good ladies by Our Lady and all of heaven! If Jesus can make a Home in
Mary assuredly our ladies can make a home rooted in Mary. Let us all pray that
our eyes may be opened to our own defects.
Let us all pray that we grow in holiness which comes from the Sacred
Heart as Source and flows through the Immaculate Heart….into ours and
ultimately into the world.
Signed
#exmanofself #theeagle