On the Vice
of Impurity
by Saint Alphonsus Liguori
First Point
Delusion of those who say that
sins against purity are not a great evil
The unchaste, then, say that
sins contrary to purity are but a small evil. Like
"the sow . . . wallowing in the mire" (2Peter
2:22), they are immersed in
their own filth,
so that they do not see the
malice of their
actions; and therefore they neither feel nor
abhor the stench of
their impurities, which excite
disgust and horror
in all others. Can you, who say that the vice of
impurity is but a small evil -
can you, I ask, deny that it is a
mortal sin?
If you deny it, you are a
heretic; for as Saint Paul says, "Do not err: neither
fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor the effeminate, nor liers with
mankind, nor thieves, nor
covetous, nor drunkards, nor railers, nor extortioners, shall possess
the kingdom of God" - 1Corinthians 9-10.
It is a mortal sin;
it cannot be a small evil. It is more
sinful than theft,
or detraction, or the
violation of the fast. How
then can you say that it is not a great evil? Perhaps mortal sin appears to you to be a small
evil? Is it a small evil to despise
the grace of God, to
turn your back on
Him, and to lose His friendship, for a transitory,
beastly pleasure?
Saint Thomas teaches that mortal sin,
because it is an
insult offered to an infinite God, contains a certain
infinitude of malice.
"A sin committed against God, has a certain infinitude,
on account of the infinitude of Divine Majesty" - Saint Thomas.
Is mortal sin a small evil? It
is so great an evil, that if all the
angels and all the saints, the
apostles,
martyrs, and even the Mother
of God, offered all
their merits to atone for a
single mortal sin,
the oblation would not be sufficient. No, for that
atonement or satisfaction would be finite;
but the debt contracted by
mortal sin is
infinite, on account of the infinite majesty of God,
which has been
offended. The hatred which
God bears to sins
against purity is
great beyond measure. If a lady find her plate
soiled, she is disgusted, and
cannot eat. Now with what disgust and
indignation must God,
Who is purity
itself, behold the filthy impurities
by which His law is
violated? He loves purity with
an infinite love;
and consequently He has has an
infinite hatred
for the sensuality which the
lewd, voluptuous
man calls a small evil. Even the devils who
held a high rank in Heaven before
their fall, disdain
to tempt men to
sins of the flesh.
Saint Thomas says, that Lucifer,
who is supposed to have been the
Devil that tempted Jesus Christ in the desert,
tempted Him
to commit other
sins, but scorned to
tempt Him
to offend against
chastity. Is this sin a small evil? Is it then a small evil to see a man endowed with a
rational soul, and enriched with so many divine graces,
bring himself, by the sin of impurity, to
the level of a brute? "Fornication and pleasure",
says Saint Jerome, "pervert the understanding,
and change men into beasts". In the voluptuous and
unchaste, are
literally verified the words of David: "And man when he was in honor did not
understand; he is compared to senseless beasts, and is become like to them"
- Psalm 48:13. Saint Jerome says, that there is nothing more
vile or degrading,
than to allow oneself to be conquered by the
flesh. "Nihil vilius quam vinci a carne".
Is it a small evil to forget
God, and to banish Him from the soul,
for the sake of giving the body a vile
satisfaction, of which, when it is over, you feel
ashamed? Of this the
Lord complains by the
Prophet Ezekiel, "Therefore thus saith the Lord God: Because thou hast
forgotten Me, and hast cast Me off behind thy back, bear thou also thy wickedness, and thy fornications"
- Ezekiel 23:35. Saint Thomas says, that by every
vice, but particularly by the
vice of impurity, men are removed far from
God. "Per luxuriam
maxime recedit a Deo".
Moreover, sins of impurity, on account of
their great number, are an immense evil. A blasphemer
does not always blaspheme, but only when he
is drunk, or provoked to
anger. The assassin,
whose trade is to murder others, does not, at the most commit
more than eight or
ten homicides. But the
unchaste are guilty
of an unceasing torrent of sins, by
thoughts, by words, by looks, by complacencies, and
by touches; so that, when they go to
confession, they find it impossible
to tell the number of the
sins they
have committed against
purity. Even in their sleep,
the Devil represents to
them obscene objects, that on waking,
they may take delight in
them; and because they are
made the slaves of the
enemy, they obey and consent
to his suggestions; for it is easy to
contract a habit of this sin. To
other sins, such as
blasphemy, detraction, and
murder, men are not prone; but to this vice, nature inclines
them. Hence Saint Thomas says, that there is no
sinner so ready to offend God, as the votary of
lust is, on every occasion that occurs to him. "Nullus
ad Dei contemptum promptior". The sin of
impurity brings in its train the
sins of defamation,
of theft, hatred,
and of boasting of
its filthy abominations. Besides, it ordinarily involves the
malice of scandal. Other
sins, such as blasphemy, perjury, and
murder, excite horror
in those who witness them; but
this sin excites others, who are flesh, to
commit it, or at least, to
commit it with less
horror.
"Totum hominem", says Saint Cyprian,
"agit in triumphum libidinis". By
lust the Devil
triumphs over the entire man, over his
body and over his
soul; over his memory, filling
it with the remembrance of
unchaste delights, in order to make him take
complacency in them; over his
intellect, to make him desire occasions of
committing sin; over the
will, by making it
love its impurities as his last
end, and as if there were no God.
"I made a covenant with my eyes, that I would not so much as
think upon a virgin. For what part should God from above have in me"
- Job 31:1-2. Job was afraid
to look at a virgin; because he knew that if he consented to a
bad thought, God
should have no part in him. According to Saint Gregory, from
impurity arises
blindness of understanding,
destruction, hatred
of God, and despair
of eternal life. Saint Augustine says that though the
unchaste may grow old, the
vice of impurity does not grow
old in him. Hence Saint Thomas says
that there is no sin in which the
Devil delights so much as in this
sin; because there is no other
sin to which nature clings with so
much tenacity. To the vice of impurity it adheres so firmly, that the
appetite for carnal
pleasures becomes insatiable. Go now, and say that the sin of impurity is
but a small evil. At the
hour of death you shall not say so; every sin of that kind shall then
appear to you a monster of Hell. Much less,
shall you say so before the Judgement-Seat of
Jesus Christ, Who will tell you
what the Apostle has already told you, "No
fornicator, or unclean . . . hath inheritance in
the kingdom of Christ and of God" - Ephesians 5:5. The man who
has lived like a brute, does not deserve to
sit with the angels.
Most beloved brethren, let us continue to pray
to God to deliver us from this
vice; if we do not, we shall
lose our souls.
The sin of impurity brings with
it blindness
and obstinacy. Every
vice produces darkness of understanding; but
impurity produces
it in a greater degree than all other sins.
"Fornication, and wine, and drunkenness, take away the understanding" -
Hosea 4:11. Wine deprives us of
understanding and reason; so does
impurity. Hence Saint Thomas says
that the man who indulges in unchaste pleasures,
does not live according to reason.
"In nullo procedit secundum judicium rationis".
Now if the unchaste are
deprived of light,
and no longer see the evil which
they do, how can they abhor it, and
amend their
lives? The Prophet Hosea says, that being blinded by their own
mire, they
do not even think of returning to God;
because their impurities take away from
them all knowledge
of God. "They will not set their thoughts to
return to their God: for the spirit of fornication is in the midst of them, and
they have not known the Lord" - Hosea 5:4. Hence Saint
Lawrence Justinian writes, that this sin
makes men forget God. "Delights
of the flesh induce forgetfulness of God". And Saint John
Damascene teaches, that "the carnal man cannot look
at the light of truth". Thus, the lewd
and voluptuous no longer
understand what is meant by the
grace of God, by
judgement, Hell, and
eternity. "Fire
hath fallen on them, and they shall not see the sun" - Psalm
57:9. Some of these blind miscreants go so far as to say, that
fornication is not in
itself sinful. They
say, that it was not
forbidden in the Old Law; and in
support of this execrable doctrine, they
adduce the words of the Lord to Hosea,
"Go, take thee a wife of fornications, and have of her
children of fornications" - Hosea 1:2. In answer I say, that
God did not permit Hosea
to commit fornication; but
wished him to take for his wife a woman who had had been
guilty of fornication; and the
children of this marriage were called children of
fornication, because the mother had been
guilty of that crime. This is,
according to Saint Jerome, the meaning of the words of the
Lord to Hosea. "Idcirco",
says the holy doctor, "fornicationis appellandi sunt
filii, quod sunt de meretrice generati". But
fornication was always forbidden,
under pain of
mortal sin, in the Old, as well as the New Law. Saint
Paul says, "No
fornicator, or unclean . . . hath inheritance in
the kingdom of Christ and of God" - Ephesians 5:5. Behold
the impiety to which the
blindness of such
sinners carries them! From this
blindness it arises, that, though
they go to the
sacraments, their confessions are null for
want of true
contrition; for how is it possible for them
to have true sorrow, when
they neither know nor abhor
their sins?
The vice of impurity also brings with
it obstinacy.
To conquer temptations, particularly
against chastity,
continual prayer is necessary. "Watch ye,
and pray that you enter not into temptation. The spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak" - Mark 14:38.
But how will the unchaste,
who are always seeking to be
tempted, pray
to God to deliver
them from temptation?
They sometimes, as Saint Augustine
confessed of himself, even abstain from prayer,
through fear of being heard and
cured of the
disease, which they wish to
continue. "I feared", said the saint, "that
you would soon hear and heal the sin of concupiscence, which I wished to be
satiated, rather than extinguished". Saint Peter calls this
vice an unceasing
sin. "Having eyes full of adultery and of
sin that ceaseth not" - 2Peter 2:14.
Impurity is called an unceasing sin
on account of the obstinacy which
it induces. Some persons
addicted to this
vice say: I always confess the sin.
So much the worse; for, since you always
relapse into the
sin, these confessions serve to
make you persevere in the sin. The
fear of punishment is diminished by saying:
I always confess the sin. If you felt that
this sin certainly merits
Hell, you would scarcely say:
I will not give it up; I do not care if I am damned.
But the Devil deceives you.
Commit this sin,
he says; for you afterwards
confess it.
But to make a good confession of your
sins, you must have true sorrow of the heart,
and a firm purpose to sin no more.
Where are this sorrow and this firm
purpose of amendment, when you always
return to the vomit? If you had had these
dispositions, and had received sanctifying grace
at your confessions, you should not
have relapsed, or at least you should have
abstained for a considerable time
from relapsing. You have always
fallen back into sin in
eight or ten days,
and perhaps in a shorter time, after
confession. What sign is this? It is a sign
that you were always in enmity with
God. If a sick man
instantly vomits the
medicine which he takes, it is a sign that his
disease is
incurable.
Saint Jerome says, that the vice of impurity,
when habitual, will cease when the unhappy man
who indulges in it, is cast into the
fire of Hell. "O
infernal fire, lust, whose fuel is gluttony, whose sparks are brief
conversations, whose end is Hell". The
unchaste become like the vulture that waits to be
killed by the fowler, rather than
abandon the rottenness of the
dead bodies on which it feeds. This is what
happened to a young female, who, after having lived in the
habit of sin with a young man, fell sick,
and appeared to be converted. At the
hour of death, she asked leave of her
confessor to send for the young man, in
order to exhort him to change his life at the sight of her
death. The confessor very
imprudently gave the permission, and taught her what she should say to her
accomplice in sin. But listen to what
happened. As soon as she saw him, she forgot her promise to the
confessor and the exhortation she was
to give to the young man. And what did she do? She raised herself up, sat in the
bed, stretched her arms to him, and said: Friend, I
have always loved you, and even now, at the end of my life, I love you; I see
that on your account I shall go to Hell, but I do not care; I am willing, for
the love of you, to be damned. After these words, she fell back on
the bed and expired. These facts are related
by Father Segneri. Oh! how difficult
is it for a person who has contracted a habit of this
vice, to amend
his life and return sincerely to God! how
difficult is it for him not to terminate this
habit in Hell,
like the unfortunate young woman of whom I
have just spoken.
Second Point
Illusion of those who say,
that God takes pity on this sin
The votaries of lust say that
God takes pity
on this sin; but such is not the language of
Saint Thomas of Villanova. He says that in the sacred Scriptures
we do not read of any sin so
severely chastised as the
sin of impurity. "Luxuriae
facinus prae aliis punitum legimus" - Sermon 4. We find in the
Scriptures, that in punishment of this
sin, a deluge of fire descended from
Heaven on four cities, and in an instant, consumed not only the inhabitants, but
even the very stones. "And the Lord rained upon Sodom
and Gomorrha brimstone and fire from the Lord out of Heaven. And He destroyed these cities, and all the
country about, all the inhabitants of the cities, and all things that spring
from the earth" - Genesis 19:24-25. Saint Peter Damian
relates that a man and woman who had sinned against purity, were found burnt and black as a
cinder.
Salvian writes that it was in punishment
of the sin of impurity that
God sent on the Earth the universal deluge,
which was caused by continued rain for forty days
and forty nights. In this deluge, the waters
rose fifteen cubits above the tops of the
highest mountains; and only eight persons
along with Noah were saved in the
ark. The rest of the inhabitants of the Earth, who were more numerous then than
at present, were punished with
death in
chastisement of the vice of impurity.
Mark the words of the Lord in speaking of
this chastisement which
He inflicted
on that sin. "My
Spirit shall not remain in man forever, because he is flesh" -
Genesis 6:3. "That is", says Liranus,
"too deeply involved in carnal sins". The
Lord added, "For it
repenteth Me that I have made them" - Genesis 6:7. The
indignation of God
is not like ours, which clouds
the mind, and drives us into
excesses;
His wrath
is a judgment perfectly just and
tranquil, by which
God punishes and
repairs
the disorders of sin. But to make us
understand the intensity of
His hatred
for the sin of impurity,
He represents Himself
as if sorry for having created
man, who offended Him
so grievously by this
vice. We, at the present day, see more
severe temporal punishment inflicted on this, than on any
other sin. Go into the hospitals, and listen
to the shrieks of so many young men, who, in
punishment of their
impurities, are obliged to submit to the
severest treatment and to the most painful
operations, and who, if they escape death,
are, according to the divine threat, feeble,
and subject to the most excruciating pain
for the remainder of their lives. "Because thou hast
forgotten Me, and hast cast Me off behind thy back, bear thou also thy
wickedness, and thy fornications" - Ezekiel 23:35.
Saint Remigius writes, that if children be excepted, the number of
adults that are saved, is
few, on account of the
sins of the flesh. "Exceptis parvulis ex
adultis propter vitiam carnis pauci salvantur". In conformity with
this doctrine, it was revealed to a holy soul,
that as pride has filled
Hell with devils,
so impurity fills it with men. Saint Isidore assigns this reason. He says
that there is no vice which so much
enslaves men to the
Devil as impurity.
"Magis per luxuriam, humanum genus subditur diabolo,
quam per aliquod aliud" - Saint Isidore. Hence Saint
Augustine says, that with regard to this sin,
the combat is common, and the victory rare.
Hence it is that on account of this sin,
Hell is filled with
souls.
All
that I have said on this subject, has been said, not that anyone
present, who has been addicted to the
vice of impurity, may be driven to
despair, but that such persons
may be cured. Let us then come to the
remedies. There are
two great remedies;
prayer and the flight of
dangerous occasions.
Prayer, says Saint Gregory of Nyssa, is the
safeguard of Chastity. "Oratio
pudicitiae praesidium et tutamen est". And before him, Solomon,
speaking of himself, said the same. "And as I knew that I could not otherwise be
continent, except God gave it, . . . I went to the Lord, and besought Him"
- Wisdom 8:21. Thus it is impossible for us to conquer this
vice without God's
assistance. Hence, as soon as a temptation
against chastity presents
itself, the remedy
is to turn instantly to
God for help,
and to repeat several times the most holy names of
Jesus and Mary, which have a
special virtue to banish
bad thoughts of that kind. I have said
immediately, without listening
to, or beginning to argue with the temptation.
When a bad thought occurs in the
mind, it is necessary to shake
it off instantly,
as you would a spark that flies from the fire, and
instantly to invoke aid from
Jesus and Mary.
As to the flight of dangerous occasions,
Saint Philip Neri used to say, that cowards - that is, they who fly
from the occasions - gain the
victory. Hence, you must, in the
first place, keep a restraint on the
eyes, and must abstain from looking at young
females. Otherwise, says Saint Thomas, you can scarcely avoid this
sin.
Hence Job said: "I made a covenant with my eyes,
that I would not so much as think upon a virgin" - Job 31:1.
He was afraid to look at a
virgin; because from looks it is easy
to pass to desires, and from desires to acts. Saint
Francis de Sales used to say, that to look at a woman does not do so much
evil, as to look at her a
second time. If the
Devil has not gained a victory the first,
he will gain it the
second time. And if it be necessary to abstain from looking at
females, it is much more necessary to avoid conversation with them. "Tarry
not among women" - Ecclesiasticus 42:12. We should be
persuaded that, in avoiding occasions of this sin,
no caution can be too great.
Hence we must be always fearful, and fly
from them. "A wise
man feareth, and declineth from evil: the fool leapeth over, and is confident"
- Proverbs 14:16. A wise man is timid,
and flies away; a fool is confident, and falls.
Excellent post Eric. Hopefully more and more people get the message.
ReplyDeleteI go to confess almost weekly for this sin. I am overwhelmed with lust. I am separated five years and have been celibate for the sake of my three children that I have custody of. I have deep desires for a woman but for all the wrong reasons. Pray for me.
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